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TIPS ON HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL HUSBAND
Prepared by Muhammad Al-Shareef, Reprinted from Islamway.com
Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the
time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the
wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband
to dress up
for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alayhi wa
always start with Miswak (tooth stick) when returning home and
the sweetest smells.
the cutest names for your wife. Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alayhi
wa sallam) had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved.
your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using
hurt their feelings.
Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our
lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day
which brings no attention from the husband - until she does
'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good
that she does
and focus on that.
you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not
comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alayhi
used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (radi
'anhunn). It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.
Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often.
Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim
Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember
Ahadith when Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) would
kiss his wife
before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.
Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again!
for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans
home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only
acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more
salt in the
soup. Don't let that be; thank her!
her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made
her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to
gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing
her and work on repeating those times in your life.
Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may
down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu
wa sallam set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (radi
Allahu 'anha) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on
camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the
humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah
Allahu alayhi wa sallam) - would race his wife Aisha (radi
'anha) - in the desert. When was the last time we did something
Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger (sal Allahu
wa sallam): "The best of you are those who treat their families
best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the
conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah - azza wa jall -
your marriage successful. And Allah ta'ala knows best !!
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